What do you think?
Is it —- enough?
Does it make me look —?
We all want to be validated. To ask for permission. Heck we grew up in a world where you’ve got to raise your hand, and ask to go to the bathroom.
Sometimes asking is keeping the peace, sometimes asking is gathering information but sometimes asking is just insecurities about the information we already have, what we are capable of, or what we really want.
Try going a week without asking anyone’s opinion or advice. I was surprised to find I caught myself several times a day and it was hard but made things simpler at the same time. What do you think you will you find?